"Self"
By Ferrell K. Ellis

The stress began the day you learned
you were expected to please other people.
Parents wanted you to stay clean and be quiet.
Neighbors wanted you to be respectful and helpful.
Teachers wanted you to be attentive and alert.
Friends wanted you to share and hang-out.
Whenever you failed to do
exactly what someone expected  of you,
you weren't good or good enough.
You were bad, weak or dumb.
Unfortunately, you began to believe it.
Giving in to the demands,
day by day, you lost a little more of yourself
and your understanding of the truth.
The truth is you are fine, just the way you are.
Perfect in your perfection!
You are divine!
Growing brighter and more brilliant in each day.
You can accept the truth of who you are.

There is a power greater than myself
who loves me exactly as I am.
The divine power knows exactly who I am.

Most of us know exactly what it is
that creates the pain, confusion, stagnation
and disruption in our lives.
Whether it is a habit, behavior, relationship,
or fear, we know.
Unfortunately,
we seem powerless to stop whatever it is.
Sometimes we don't believe we have the discipline
or willpower to stop.
The behavior becomes so habitual
we do it without thinking.
Other times we know exactly what it is
and what we do,
but we simply keep doing it anyway.
We are the only one responsible
for what goes on in our lives.
We can make excuses and blame others,
but we are responsible to and for ourselves.
When we find something or someone
creating in our lives that which we do not want,
we must muster the courage and strength to stop it.

Today, I use my power to stop what is no longer good for me.
 

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