This was written by an
83 year old woman to her friend.
Author Unknown

        I'm reading more and dusting less.
I'm sitting in the yard and admiring garden.
I'm spending more time with my family
and friends and less time working.
Whenever possible, life should be a
pattern of experiences to savor,
not to endure. I'm trying to recognize
these moments now and cherish them.
        I'm not "saving" anything;
we use our good China
and crystal for every special event
such as losing a pound,
getting the sink unstopped,
or the first Amaryllis blossom.
I wear my good blazer to the market.
My theory is if I look prosperous,
I can shell out $28.49
for one small bag of groceries.
        I'm not saving my good perfume
for special parties,
but wearing it for clerks in the hardware store
and tellers at the bank.
"Someday" and "one of these days"
are losing their grip on my vocabulary.
If it's worth seeing or hearing or doing,
I want to see and hear and do it now.
I'm not sure what others would've done
had they known that they wouldn't be here
for the tomorrow
that we all take for granted.
        I think they would have called family members
and a few close friends.
They might have called a few former friends
to apologize and mend fences
for past squabbles.
I like to think they would
have gone out for a Chinese dinner,
or for whatever their favorite food was.
I'm guessing; I'll never know.
        It's those little things left undone
that would make me angry
if I knew my hours were limited.
Angry because I hadn't
written certain letters
that I intended to write one of these days.
Angry and sorry that I didn't tell
my husband and parents often enough
how much I truly love them.
I'm trying very hard not to put off,
hold back, or save anything
that would add laughter and luster to our lives.
        And every morning when I open my eyes,
tell myself that it is special.
If you received this it is because
someone cares for you.
If you're too busy to take the few minutes
that it takes right now to forward this,
would it be the first time
you didn't do the little thing
that would make a difference
in your relationships?
I can tell you it certainly won't be the last.
        Take a few minutes
to send this to a few people
you care about,
just to let them know
that you're thinking of them.

"People say true friends must always hold hands,
but true friends don't need to hold hands
because they know the other hand
will always be there."

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